“Don’t cum on my face”...

“I’m not doing anal”...

“Don’t mess up my hair”...

“Eww no that’s disgusting”...

“I’m not sucking that, it’s just been in my vagina”...

“I’m not wearing that”...

“Your semen makes me want to be sick”...

“I hate being choked”...

“Can’t we just have normal sex?”...

“Ouch, stop spanking me”...

“You’re not tying me up”...

“You’ve just licked my vagina, I’m not kissing you now”...

“There’s no way I’m licking that”...

“I’m not that kind of girl”...

“What is wrong with you, why do you want to do that?”...

“I’m not going to spit on it, that’s nasty”...

“No, I won’t suck on your fingers”...

“I will literally NEVER swallow your cum!”...

If your wife says shit like this during sex, that is why you are still reading this, because you’ve had enough of her arbitrary rules and her lack of eagerness for you.

You want your very own personal ‘Slut’ for a wife, but she feels very far away from that at this point in time.

All you’re really after is enthusiastic sex that happens at least 1-2 times per week, and sex that gets slightly more adventurous every single time.

So, how do you go about building your very own ‘Slut’ who will give you that scenario?

I’ll break it down into 4 simple steps for you now:

1. You pull back from your wife and create a playful chase for her, rather than validating her upfront, hoping it leads to sex.

2. You make sure she is getting to experience as many good and ‘bad’ emotions at your hands as possible, to keep her hooked on you. (She’s an emotion junkie, and I explain how this works later)

3. You only ever initiate sex when your wife ‘invites’ you for sex, as the only way she’s  going to be adventurous in bed is if she is the one wanting the sex the most.

4. You always introduce slightly new sexual activities/experiences every time one of these sex sessions happen, and you make her chase continue into the sex itself by using ‘dark sex’. (I give you tons of ‘small wins’ examples for the bedroom inside the programs)

In as simple but broad terms as possible, that’s what you need to do in order to ‘build a Slut’ out of your wife.

No woman actually ‘wants’ to become a man’s slut for the hell of it, but she LOVES the process when she is doing it for a man who she is chasing.

Don’t be intimidated by this idea of getting her to ‘chase you’ either, as it’s not as hard as it sounds, here’s what I mean…

By default, she needs you more than you need her, so once you realise this and you playfully pull away from her, she will subconsciously get her ass into gear and start trying to lock you back down via sex.

She will not be consciously aware of this process as it unfolds, and there’s no need to point it out to her either, but it will happen, because she wants things to continue with you.

Until reading this, you have been way too reliable, dependable, consistent, and ‘good’ to her, but once you tastefully and playfully pull away from her, she will stop taking you for granted and she will start becoming much more enthusiastic and open minded in bed.

This is the crux of the ‘Slut Builder’ programs.

There are 3 different ‘Slut Builder’ programs which build on each other:

1. Slut Builder - Lite. This program will show you how to lay her ‘Slut Foundations’ and create an initial chase for her.

2. Slut Builder - Pro. This program will show you how to get her hooked on her chase for you by giving you the tools to consistently spike her emotions in life and the bedroom, to keep her chase going consistently.

3. Slut Builder - Ultimate. This program will show you how to take your wife through all kinds of very specific sexual situations and smoothly handle all of her objections as you do.

Let’s look at what’s included with each program in more detail, including the specific guides you will get and how it all works…

Inside Slut Builder - Lite, you will be shown:

Section 1 - Get Her Chasing You For Sex:

• How to playfully create a chase for your wife.

• How to fully understand the leverage you actually have as a married man, that most married men completely miss.

• How to leverage your self improvement journey to increase your wife’s attraction for you. (This isn’t done by simply getting bigger biceps or a bigger bank account, as I will explain)

• 6 Playful ways to spike some jealousy and competition anxiety in her, based on examples from my own life.

• 30 Illustrated, dominant body language examples for everyday use.

• 23 Things that men should never say to a woman, and what to say instead.

• 10 Things you should say to your wife more often and why.

• How to become the stereotypical ‘Bad Boy’. This guide is more about getting you thinking creatively, rather than literal advice.

Section 2 - Expanding Her Sexual Comfort Zone:

• How to NEVER need lubricants for vaginal sex ever again. (Most married dudes need to use lube, so this is a big problem you’ll want to eliminate.)

• How to lay her ‘Slut Foundations’ in 8 powerful steps, to change the way she sees herself in the bedroom.

• 25 Animated (GIF) bedroom activities to take her through to expand her sexual comfort zone. (These are heavily annotated too, so you fully grasp what is happening and why.)

• 100 Lines of dirty talk to implement to ‘slutify’ her and bring her out of her shell.

• An illustrated, step by step guide on how to work her up to the idea of swallowing your cum, when she’s spent years being awkward about it.

• 3 Ways to ‘embarrass’ your wife during sex, to playfully expand her sexual comfort zone.

• How to order sex toys together with your wife, to further expand her sexual confidence levels.

This program is about establishing her playful chase for your full level of validation, and it will show you how to convert that chase of hers into a more adventurous time in the bedroom.

There will only be 2000 places available in total for this program, and once they are gone they are seriously gone, with no exceptions.

Inside Slut Builder - Pro, the guides are broken down into 3 stages, where you will be shown:

Stage 1 - Creating a chase for your ‘Fuck Buddy’:

• Everything inside of Slut Builder - Lite, as you get that included.

• How to playfully ‘let go’ of your wife so that she becomes free to be your slut.

• How to relegate your wife to ‘fuck buddy’ status so that she wants to reclaim her ‘wife’ status.

• How to tastefully flirt with other women right in front of your wife, to playfully create tons of jealousy in her.

• How to become more mysterious and unpredictable, despite years of marriage and familiarity.

• 30 Different emotions you need to spike in her and why these need to be spiked.

• 20 More playful ways to spike jealousy in your wife. (These contain lots of examples from my own life)

• 25 Ways to playfully ‘offend’ and flirt with your wife.

• 100 Playful hoops to get her jumping though in your day to day life, in order to make her chase your approval. (These are very simple instructions to give her, but the psychology behind them is massive)

• How to break out of the ‘Vanilla Nice Guy Box’ in 1 simple step. (This allows her to see you as a more sexual kind of man)

• 20 Actions that prevent adventurous sex from happening and why.

• How to get your wife to ‘invite’ you for sex and what those ‘invites’ will look like. (You’re probably overlooking her ‘invites’ without realizing it, so this guide will clear that up for you.)

• 25 Ways you are being ‘too nice’ to your wife, and what to do instead.

• How to leverage your ex-girlfriends for better sex with your wife.

Stage 2 - Slutifying her, little by little:

• How to use fun, not dominance, to open her up sexually. (No pushiness, no arrogance, no getting butt hurt, I show you how to make this a smooth and enjoyable process for both of you.)

• 50 Small ‘wins’ to nudge her out of her sexual comfort zone quickly and smoothly.

• 35 ‘Dark’ slutty behaviors to bring out of her and incorporate into your marriage. (This is about the psychology of the ‘Slut’ and how to use it for fun with your wife)

• How to reframe her boring ‘rules’ in bed as ‘wins’. (This is a really powerful reframe that makes everything a positive.)

• How to become ‘playfully toxic’ to build your slut.

• How to work with her natural interests in sex, rather than against them.

• How to leverage incentives and rewards for her slutty behavior in bed.

• 100 Animated (GIFs) ideas to take her through in the bedroom. (These go way beyond simple sex positions that you can find online for free, these are about tons of subtle moves and gestures to use to open her up sexually.)

• 300 Lines of dirty talk to use on her to really expand her sexual confidence levels.

• An illustrated guide on how to get her to wear a butt plug.

• An illustrated guide on how to get her to try anal sex.

• An illustrated guide on getting her to give you mid-sex blowjobs.

• An illustrated guide on getting her used to being playfully choked during sex.

• How to consistently give her an orgasm, and the psychological benefits behind this.

• How to give her a ‘Squirting Orgasm’. (This is an important biology lesson I’ve never heard anybody explain in this way.)

Stage 3 - Slut Builder Mindset:

• Why women love ‘Sin’ and how it helps them become highly sexual.

• Why your orgasm = Her validation, and how you can leverage this.

• How to undomesticate yourself as a married man. (Don’t worry, I’m not going to mention lifting weights, it gets way ‘darker’ than that)

• What ‘Dark Sex’ is really about, and how to use it to keep your wife in chase mode.

This program dives extremely deep into how to create a full on chase for her, giving very specific examples, and lots of them.

It then goes on to explain how to use playfulness, rather than pushiness, to open her up to a whole heap of subtle but powerful sexual experiences, so that she can gain plenty of sexual confidence in order to go even further next time.

Inside Slut Builder - Ultimate, the guides are broken up into 3 different sections. You will be shown:

Section 1 - How to introduce her to anything and everything in bed

• Everything inside of Slut Builder Lite and Slut Builder Pro is included.

• 50 Things to get her to wear in bed and why.

• 500+ Things to say to her in bed to expand her sexual confidence levels.

• How to introduce her to giving you a blowjob if she’s awkward about it.

• How to introduce her to giving you deepthroat blowjobs.

• How to introduce her to giving you wetter/sloppier blowjobs.

• How to introduce her to making gagging noises during a blowjob, if she’s too shy to do so.

• How to introduce her to giving mid-sex blowjobs.

• How to introduce her to swallowing your cum.

• How to introduce her to gargling on your cum.

• How to introduce her to licking up your cum.

• How to introduce her to rimming you.

• How to introduce her to being restrained by you.

• How to introduce her to wearing a collar and being lightly choked during sex.

• How to introduce her to screaming/moaning louder during sex, and why.

• How to introduce her to having her hair pulled during sex.

• How to introduce her to rougher play during sex.

• How to introduce her to spitting/saliva during sex.

• How to introduce her to fisting.

• How to introduce her to wearing a butt plug.

• How to introduce her to anal sex.

• How to introduce her to talking dirty to you during sex.

• How to introduce her to playfully calling you Sir, or Master etc.

• How to introduce her to sending you nudes, and be happy to do so.

• How to introduce her to wearing different types of lingerie.

• How to introduce her to golden showers.

• Illustrated ideas on getting her very comfortable giving blowjobs.

• Illustrated ideas on getting her fully used to your cum, and handling it.

• Illustrated ideas on getting her used to being manhandled during sex, and enjoying it.

• Illustrated ideas on getting her fully used to anal sex.

• Illustrated ideas on how to playfully ‘shock’ her during sex and expand her sexual comfort zone.

• What the ultimate end goal of ‘Slut Building’ is.

Section 2 - How to get her lost in the sex using my ‘Story Element’ philosophy

• What exactly a ’Story Element’ is and how you can implement one.

• 24 ‘Story Element’ examples from my own life, to inspire your own.

• How to sexualise your wife through your bedroom design.

• How to get your wife into what I call a ‘Sexual Frenzy’ and how to maintain it.

• How to make her feel like she’s in a movie during sex.

Section 3 - How to always outlast your wife in bed to keep her chasing you

• How a woman can weaken you through sex, and how to avoid this.

• How adult actors last so long and how you can use this same idea.

• How excited you should be for sex, and how this affects everything.

• How to go multiple rounds in bed using my World Builder mindset.

• How to put on a ‘bad performance’ just to playfully mess with her.

• How to have ice in your veins during sex and how this keeps you lasting forever.

This program covers all aspects of ‘Slut Building’ including how to create ‘Stories’ for her to step into every time you have sex, aka ‘Story Elements’. As well as how to last as long you like in bed in order to heighten her chase for you even more.

The things I will teach you here have been put together by me based on years of obsession with this topic, after experiencing some very vanilla and tedious sex with an ex-girlfriend many years ago. My entire body of work is basically a slingshot effect from that time period in my life, so that I will never have to go through that stuff again, nor will you.

Before you decide which program you’d like to get started with, let’s cover a few very important topics first, so you know everything about what the Slut Builder Programs are about…

1. Why are there limited places available for these programs? 

All of the Slut Builder programs have a fixed amount of places available, and they will completely close once they are filled. The reason for this is that I want lots of feedback on how the programs help people so that I can then use that as evidence for a bespoke 1 on 1 offer that I will have in place when all Slut Builder places are filled. 

I am going to repeat the fact that these programs will close for good so much that there is no going back on my word or changing things last minute, without taking a giant shit on my reputation. So, they really will close once full, and all I will offer afterwards is 1 place per month to work with me, for a 5 figure price.

2. What are the limitations of this program? 

I can teach you how to be a PLAYFUL asshole, but I can’t and won’t teach you how to be a complete asshole. The ‘complete asshole’ gets the very best from a woman sexually, but I can take you up to about 80-90% of this with my playful methods. 

The reason I don’t teach the really ‘dark’ stuff is that it’s unethical of me… BUT I will highlight a lot of these ‘dark’ traits in my Slut Builder Pro and Ultimate programs, in order to help you understand how these kinds of guys function. It’s then totally up to you what and how you choose to implement all of these ideas.

3. What are the realistic outcomes you should expect from implementing this program? 

No bullshit, your wife WILL NOT become ‘Your Slut’ overnight, but put this program into practice just a little bit every single day for 3-6 months, and you’ll have a completely different, and much more sexually confident wife. That’s all I can assure you of. I don’t make big grand promises.

I’ve broken everything down into bite size action steps that you can start implementing as soon as you are comfortable to implement them. Which means you can easily test out an action step and see feedback from it that same day. 

4. Can you ask me questions inside of these programs? 

Yes, all of the programs. You are free to post your questions beneath the individual guides they apply to. And if you’re in the Ultimate program, you can directly message me inside of the community and ask me more personal questions that you have, 1 on 1.

The more questions you post for me, the better the programs get.

5. Why is VAT added to the price at checkout? 

Gumroad adds different rates of VAT/Sales Tax onto the listed price, depending on where it detects you are logging in from in the world. The rates vary from 0% to +20% depending on what nationality of IP address you are currently using.

6. Why is there no money back guarantee for these programs?

First of all, it costs me to refund people. Second of all, I prefer working with people who don’t need a money back guarantee and I have been doing this for years now anyway.

One thing I can guarantee you is that nobody has studied sex to the insane, almost dangerous degree that I have, so you’re in for plenty of ideas and action steps you’ve never thought of before. (But, an important disclaimer: You are responsible for how you choose to interpret and then act upon my work, as I’m simply sharing my insights and lessons here.)

7. Can you upgrade to another program without having to pay the full price every time?

Yes, each program will contain a discount link for you to get started with the next tier program, but this discount shrinks every time a certain number of people use it. It will all be explained for you inside of the program, but the sooner you choose to upgrade, the better of a discount you will get.

8. Here’s 4 reasons to get started NOW…

1. The places to all of these Slut Builder Programs are capped and will close down for good once filled.

2. The price rises every time a certain number of people join the programs. For example, the ‘Pro’ Program rises by $1 every time somebody joins.

3. The discount to upgrade to a higher tiered program will consistently decrease every time somebody uses the discount link. For example, to upgrade from ‘Pro’ to ‘Ultimate’ the discount starts off at $1000 but for every 1 person who uses the link, the discount price will go down by $50. Slowly eroding how much you will save.

9. How many program places are there for each program?

• Slut Builder Free has 12000 places available

• Slut Builder Lite has 2000 places available

• Slut Builder Pro has 1000 places available

• Slut Builder Ultimate has 50 places available

Once these places go, they are gone for good!

10. How will the prices rise for each program?

• Slut Builder Lite will rise by $1 every time that 10 people join.

• Slut Builder Pro will rise by $1 every time that 1 person joins.

• Slut Builder Ultimate will rise by $10 every time 1 person joins.

These prices will not be coming back down ever, and no sales will be run ever. The prices only go up and then the programs close once filled.

11. What upgrade discounts do you get in each program?

• To go from ‘Lite’ to ‘Pro’ the discount starts at $200 for the first 100 people, then the discount will lower down to just $100 until all of the places are filled.

• To go from ‘Pro’ to ‘Ultimate’ the discount starts at $1000 and will lower by $50 for every person who uses the discount.

12. Where is the program hosted?

These programs are hosted inside of my Mighty Networks private community. After purchase you will get access to a link to join this community that is available to you on Gumroad. It’s extremely easy to join and you can make up any username you like when joining, to protect your privacy.

13. What happens when all of the program places are filled?

Once this happens, all of the programs close down, except for the ‘Ultimate’ version which will then rise to a much higher price, and it will only be open to 1 person per month.

14. I use the term ‘Slut Builder’ and ‘Sloot Builder’ interchangeably.

The official name of these programs are ‘Slut Builder’ but on some platforms I use the term ‘Sloot Builder’ to avoid any issues with the word ‘Slut’. So, there is no difference between these terms.

15. How to ask me any questions before you get started…

Simply email me using this email address, clientcare@dominantpolarity.com. Or you can direct message me if you’re already in my Mighty Networks private community after joining a previous program.

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